Causes of Anxiety – Root Emotions

Understanding the psychoanalytic distinction between traumatic anxiety and neurotic anxiety in children and teens.

In this module, we delve into the intricate emotional layers that often lie beneath the surface of anxiety. Based on psychoanalytic insights, this session aims to help parents and caregivers understand that anxiety is not just a standalone reaction to stressors, but a veil masking deeper, often unresolved emotions. Through this exploration, you will learn to guide your child in recognizing the underlying feelings—such as helplessness, anger, or past traumas—that contribute to their anxiety, ultimately fostering emotional healing and self-awareness.

Common Pain Points

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Distinguishing Between Traumatic and Neurotic Anxiety

Parents often find it difficult to distinguish between anxiety caused by immediate, overwhelming situations and anxiety rooted in past traumatic experiences.

Understanding the Role of Defense Mechanisms

Many parents are unaware of how children and teens use defense mechanisms, such as avoidance or dissociation, to cope with anxiety. These mechanisms can prevent children from processing the emotions linked to their experiences.

Navigating Anxiety in Complex Social Situations

Anxiety often manifests during key social moments, whether at school or in relationships. Parents may not fully understand how past experiences of bullying or trauma influence their child’s current fears and behaviors.

A word from our Families

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Patricia and Aldo B.

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Module Benefits

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Learn the Psychoanalytic Roots of Anxiety

This module introduces the psychoanalytic framework, providing insights into how traumatic (reality-based) anxiety overwhelms a child in immediate, stressful situations, while neurotic (signal) anxiety stems from past trauma and defense mechanisms.

Recognize When Defense Mechanisms Are At Play

Parents will gain a deeper understanding of how children and teens rely on defense mechanisms, such as dissociation or avoidance, and how these behaviors signal deeper anxiety that needs to be addressed.

Gain Practical Tools to Help Your Child Navigate Their Anxiety

With a better understanding of traumatic and neurotic anxiety, you’ll be able to help your child process past traumas, break patterns of avoidance, and build healthier responses to their fears.

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